Emotional Intensity and Sensitivity in
Gifted Children
Lesley Sword
Friday evening, 8:40
The intensity with
which emotionally gifted children experience their world can be unsettling and
often disturbing for their parents, teachers and peers. Because of their
sensitivity to their environment and to other people, they are often
over-protected from the world. However, if understood, emotional intensity can
become emotional intelligence which can then be used as a strength. Children
can be given a positive framework for emotional intensity and be helped to
understand and value this gift. In this way emotionally intense children will
be empowered to express their unique selves in the world and use their gifts
and talents with confidence and joy.
From her personal
experience and using examples from working with gifted children and adults,
Lesley Sword will discuss with parents:
This discussion will be
interactive and parents are encouraged to bring their own stories of living
with emotionally intense gifted children.
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Lesley Sword is a registered
psychologist in private practice and a trained teacher who has worked with
gifted children, their parents and teachers for many years. She has particular
interest and expertise in the area of the emotional intensity and sensitivity
of gifted children and adults. Lesley is an accredited service
provider with the Victorian Education Department Gifted Unit. She has studied with
Professor Barbara Kerr from Arizona State University and Professor Nicholas
Colangelo from the University of Iowa. In 1998 Lesley studied and worked in the
USA with Dr Linda Silverman at the Gifted Development Center and completed the
Certificate of Emotional Development and Emotional Giftedness with Dr Michael
Piechowski at the University of Denver. In 1999 she again visited the USA to
work and study with Dr Annemarie Roeper in Oakland, California and with the
Roeper School for the Gifted in Detroit. |
Gifted children not only think differently to other children, they also feel differently. It is the combination of complex and deep thinking and rich and intense emotion that produces gifted children’s greater potential for high achievement. The gifted intellect provides a myriad of possibilities and sees ideals and the gifted emotion provides the intense drive towards achieving the ideals. In addition, personality characteristics such as idealism, expanded moral awareness and introversion combine to give gifted children a qualitatively different way of experiencing the world. For gifted children’s social and emotional wellbeing, it is imperative that these differences are understood as "normal for gifted" by teachers and parents and that they be helped express their unique selves in the world.
Workshop: Sunday
1:45
Many gifted children have a specific
learning difficulty that depresses both their IQ and achievement test scores so
that they appear to be "average" students. This means that they are
frequently not identified as gifted and so do not have access to educational
programming that would meet their academic needs. In addition their high
intelligence enables them to compensate for their weaknesses so that their
learning difficulty goes undetected. These children are Visual Spatial learners
with an auditory sequential learning difficulty. Visual -spatial learners think
in images and they must visualise in order to learn. There is a mismatch
between their learning style and the auditory logical sequential way in which
school material is usually presented to them. These children struggle through
school often being labelled as "lazy" students who won’t do the work,
when in reality, they can’t do the work. Many drop out before finishing
secondary schooling. This workshop will provide information on identifying
gifted Visual Spatial learners, their strengths and weaknesses and strategies
for teaching them
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